This chronicles my journey through and out of an abusive relationship, a pregnancy, the decision to place the baby for adoption, and my personal spiritual evolution.
Tuesday, December 16, 2014
The 8-fold Path -- Morality
So, in my last entry, I was sort of floundering when I attempted to break down "wrong" and "right", "good" and "bad". My explanations probably got a bit muddled as I uncovered conflicting beliefs. I mean, on one hand, nothing is "bad" and everything is in divine order. With that said, though, we should not do things to hurt one another. But we shouldn't say should. And we are all doing the best we can from our level of consciousness, sooooooo...what then? What of morality?
I was watching today's Dharma talk, 4 of 4 of the Four Noble Truths. This explanation really helped clear things up for me, and the monk quoted something that had me googling to find the source, which ended up being this 8-fold path document. He said, "There is no divine judge standing above the cosmic process who assigns rewards and punishments. Nevertheless, the deeds themselves, through their inherent moral or immoral nature, generate the appropriate results."
So, what IS moral? I feel like we all have an internal compass. The answer to this question need not be sought from books or teachers, we all carry it somewhere within us. Just like birds somehow know how to fly south every winter, we too have an inner sense, a knowing. The problem is, modern society does a lot (intentionally?) to disconnect us from our own intuition, so much so that we depend on others to tell us what is right and wrong.
In fact, I know Christians who think there would be no morality without Christianity. As if somehow having some big powerful guy in the sky watching us and delivering ten rules on a tablet is the only thing keeping us on our best behavior, for fear of his eternal retribution. What??? If that's the only reason you're being "moral", that's not so much true goodness, is it?
Not only that, but take a moment to step back and observe the horrors that have been committed in the name of this so-called religion of "love" by these people with "morals". Did I miss the Buddhist Crusades? The Hindu Inquisition? Oh yeah, that's right. Because they never happened. I'm sorry, but I have a problem accepting my moral guidelines from an institution with that much bloodshed on its hands.
Anyway, I found this article which explains things beautifully:
The Buddha divides kamma ethically right down the middle into two different classes, wholesome kamma ("kusala kamma") and unwholesome kamma ("akusala kamma").
Unwholesome kamma is action which is spiritually harmful and morally blameworthy. Wholesome kamma is action which is spiritually beneficial and morally praiseworthy.
Intention There are two basic criteria for distinguishing wholesome and unwholesome kammas. One is the intention behind the action. If an action is intended to bring harm to oneself, harm to others or harm to both oneself and others, that is unwholesome kamma. Kamma which conduces to the good of oneself, to the good of others or to the good of both is wholesome kamma.
Roots The other criterion is the roots of action. All action arises from certain mental factors called roots. These are the causal factors underlying action or the sources of action. All unwholesome actions come from three unwholesome roots, greed, aversion and delusion. Greed is selfish desire aimed at personal gratification, expressed as grasping, craving and attachment. Aversion is ill will, hatred, resentment, anger and a negative evaluation of the object. Delusion is ignorance, mental unclarity and confusion. We also find the roots in the wholesome side: non-greed, non-aversion and non-delusion. Non-greed becomes manifest as detachment and generosity. Non-aversion is expressed positively as good will, friendliness and loving kindness. Non-delusion is manifested as wisdom, understanding and mental clarity.
Due to these roots we have to be very careful when we judge actions of our own and of others. Often there can be a sharp difference between the outer action and the state of mind from which the action springs. We might be doing a lot of good work for others outwardly, but the underlying motive behind our good work might be a desire to gain fame and recognition, a form of the unwholesome root greed and craving. Someone else might be sitting quietly meditating, seemingly aloof, but inwardly he might be developing a mind of loving kindness and compassion. He might be criticised for seeking only his own good, but he might be doing more to benefit the world than the active do-gooder who is driven by desire for name and fame.
The working of kamma is so complex and so subtle that it is almost impossible to make definite predictions. All that we can know with certainty are the tendencies, but that is enough to guide our actions.
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